In 1996, the first week of January in Nashville, Tennessee 4,000 baseball coaches gathered. The speaker was John Scolinos, who had been a coach since 1948. He stood before the group with a full sized, stark-white home plate hanging around his neck. He finally said, “You probably are all wondering why I’m wearing a home plate around my neck. I want to share with you what I have learned about home plate in my 78 years of living.” He then asked the crowd, “Do you know how wide home plate is?” The answer came thundering back, SEVENTEEN INCHES. Now what do we do with a pitcher who can’t put the ball across that 17-inch plate? Get a pitcher who can. What would happen if we decided just to widen the plate to suite the pitcher?
If you can’t hit a seventeen-inch target, we will make it eighteen inches, or nineteen inches. Do we change the size of the plate to fit each pitcher? Of course not.
This is the problem in our homes today and in our marriages. We don’t expect accountability to meet standards, we just widen the plate. Without discipline for our children, we just keep widening the plate.
This is the problem in our schools today. The quality of our education is going downhill fast and teachers have been stripped of the tools they need to be successful and to educate and discipline our young people. We just widen the plate so as to get by.
This is the problem with the Church, where powerful people in positions of authority have taken advantage of young children, only to have such an atrocity swept under the rug for years. Leaders are allowed to air their opinions as if it were the gospel truth. Our church leaders are widening home plate.
If we keep widening the plate, our families, our faith, our society will continue down an undesirable path. We must hold ourselves to a higher standard, standard that we know is right. If we fail to hold our spouses and our children to the same standards, if we are unwilling or unable to provide a consequence when they do not meet the standard; and if our schools, churches, government fail to hold themselves accountable to those they serve, we are headed for dark days.
Coach Scolinos died in 2009 at the age of 91 but not before touching the lives of hundreds of people. His message was clear: “Coaches, keep your players, no matter how good they are, your own children, and most of all, keep yourself at seventeen inches. QUIT WIDENING THE PLATE.
(I hope I have not done injustice to the original article as I have shortened it to fit for my devotional.)