When you study the life of the Apostle Paul, you learn theology, the study of God. When you look at the life of James, you learn ethics, practical Christianity. But, if you want to learn of love, you must look at the life of the Apostle John. Of all the twelve Apostles, there were three who seemed to form an inner circle. Those being; James, Peter and John. And of all of these, John came the closest to Jesus. Jesus called him, “the beloved.” Scripture states of John, “the disciple whom Jesus loved.” Out of that inner communion, out of that close fellowship, out of that heart to heart relationship with Jesus, came a beautiful life, a sensitive spirit, an apostle of love.
Yet, this was not the natural nature of John. He was not born with a loving heart, nor was he reborn with it. Some find it easier to love then others. Some just have a loving disposition. But, all of us know, that truly to love someone else, is something that must be developed. To love the unlovely, to keep on loving, to love unselfishly, this is hard work and a gift of God. Love has to be worked at, it doesn’t just happen.
When we first hear of John, he is a disciple of John, the baptizer. John, the baptizer pointed Jesus out to his followers by telling them, “Behold, the Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world.” The disciple, John, knew the Old Testament Scriptures, God’s prophecy, concerning the coming Messiah. He knew all about the Passover Lamb being the type of the Lamb of God to come. So, John became a follower of the Christ. He left John, the baptizer, and his fishing nets to become an Apostles of Jesus. Yet, John had a lot of growing to do, a lot of becoming to accomplish. Incidents in his life, show John to be a man of temper, a man of jealousy, and a man of selfishness. Yet, he changed.
There is a legend about John which could certainly be true. When he was old, so that he could no longer walk, they carried him from his house to the place of worship. Time and time again, they would ask him to speak. All he would ever say was, “Little children, love one another.” Only that and nothing more did he say. One day someone dared ask him why he said nothing else. John replied, “Because this is our Lord’s sole commandment. If we fulfill this nothing more is needed.”
We overcome any undesirable trait in our lives in the same way as did John, and that is by a closeness to Jesus. The closer we come to Jesus, the more like Him we become. The sweet qualities of Jesus will become a part of our life, as we allow this Jesus to live in us. We must internalize Jesus, making Him a part of our lives. This is done through the hearing, reading, studying of the Word of God, the Bible. Our lives are changed by the renewing of our minds, as we think on the things of God. Our transformation, change, is a process, as we grow in the likeness of Christ, but we have to know Him to become like Him.
We must practice the presence of God in our lives. We will become loving as we allow the love of Christ to dwell in us.
“He became like us, so we could become like Him.”